130 Ways to Say

130 Ways to Say "I Love You"

We all know how important it is to say I love you to our spouses. But while the words “I love you” are great, sometimes they just don’t feel like enough! 


Here’s a fun list of 130 everyday ways to say I love you to your husband or wife. These are sweet ways to let he or she really know that you care! There’s more than 100 ways to say I love you here, and each of them is a great way to flirt with your spouse and keep the spark alive in your marriage.  This guide of 130 Ways to Say “I Love You” is authored by Alicia Michelle and shared with us by way of  "YourVibrantFamily.com", which is a wonderful site full of very informative Christian based articles on how to strengthen the family.  We honor Alicia and fully support her mission with YourVibrantFamily.com here at IPP.   As we ready our store for the Valentine's season, consider some of these great tips to show your love and affection for your loved one with this guide and visit us at "Innovative Products" for great gifting ideas - Happy Shopping! 

Now enjoy these great creative way to say "I Love You" to your spouse and make sure to view the entire blog as Alicia shares with us at the end some great tips on how to keep that spark in your relationships... 

 130 Creative Ways to Say “I Love You” to Your Spouse

1) Post something awesome about him on social media
2) Buy him a special treat at the grocery store
3) Write "I love you" in pasta noodles on his dinner plate.
4) Help him learn a skill he's been wanting to learn.
5) Skype or use FaceTime
when he travels
6) Fix his favorite dessert (or make something scrumptious from this Pinterest dessert board).
7) Compliment him on his outfit.
8) Write SHMILY ("See How Much I Love You") on a fogged up mirror after his shower.
9) Share a favorite memory from your wedding/honeymoon.
10) Start a "What I love about you" war of notes.
Watch what happened when my husband and I did this for a few days!
11) Draw him a hot bath.
12) Take extra good care of him when he's sick (here's
our favorite ways to kick a cold).
13) Make/buy his favorite food from childhood.
14) Say I'm sorry.
15) Kiss him unexpectedly.
16) Go on a walk together.
17) Put your arm around him while driving.
19) Say something nice about him in front of someone else.
20) Let him choose.
21) Send flowers just because.
22) Call him to say hi.
Make him a mug that says something you love about him.
24) Clean his car.
25) Take his clothes to the dry cleaner.
26) Replace old photos of the two of you with updated pictures.
27) Fix his favorite dinner.
28) Make breakfast in bed.
29) Take a fun selfie together.
30) Put a love note in his lunch.
31) Share a favorite family memory together.
32) Tell him why you chose him to be your husband.
33) Take him to his favorite restaurant.
34) Text him with your favorite three words to describe him (and include lots of hearts).
35) Massage his feet after a long day.
36) Give him a neck rub.
37) Massage his muscles after a heavy workout.
38) Write a note telling him 3 things you love about him.
39) Tell him he looks sexy in his work clothes.
Pray for him. Watch the video here of what I do everyday to pray for my husband and kids
41) Offer to drive on a long trip when he's tired.
42) Read a book about growing your marriage and implement the principles yourself.
43) If you typically put the kids to bed together, offer to put the kids to bed by yourself.
44) Light a candle with a scent he'd love.
45) Visit the spot where you were married (and a take a photo).
46) Take care of a household task he's been dreading (My husband cleaned up our (very messy) guest room last week and I literally cried when I saw it!).
47) Plan a romantic date together.
48) Spell "I love you" in alphabet letters (and leave it on the kitchen counter or place where he'll see it).
Make a scrapbook of your favorite memories.
49) Have fun new pictures taken together and create
new photo art for your bedroom.
50) Ask if he'd like to turn in early and spend time alone upstairs together (doing whatever he'd like).
51) Read books together on
how to have better sex.
52) Book a marriage retreat together.
53) Spend 2 hours alone in the bedroom together
connecting intimately.
54) Read (and do) the
Love Dare book.
55) Buy him his favorite cologne.
56) If he has a beard, make him an easy DIY Beard Oil.
57) Make him a
homemade lotion to relieve aches/pains.
58) Pray for him about ongoing issues about his work.
59) Make a playlist of songs you know he'll love.
60) Pray for his sexual purity.
61) Write "I love you" in dry erase marker on his car rearview mirror.
62) Take a staycation day together.
63) Pray for
a strong friendship for your marriage.
64) Watch his favorite movie together.
65) Play a board game or card game together.
66) Share a magazine article or post with him that he'd love.
67) Fill up his gas tank when it's low.
68) Buy new lingerie and surprise him when you go to bed tonight.
70) Go on a bike ride together.
71) Recreate your first date.
72) Ask him about his day.
73) Choose not to blame.
74) Create a "love jar"--for 30 days write a note on a piece of paper of what you love about him.
75) Choose to let it go (you know what it is!).
76) Forgive him when he says something hurtful.
77) Choose to think the best of him.
78) Watch a sports game with him and cheer on his favorite team.
79) Stop expecting him to meet all your needs. 80) Look into his eyes for 10 seconds and smile. 81) Hold hands while watching TV.
82) Take a bath together.
83) Watch/listen to a comedian together. 84) Make dinner together.
85) Wear an outfit you know he'll love. 86) Work on a DIY house project together. 87) Go on a hike.
88) Share one dream you have for your marriage. 89) Play his favorite song.
90) Walk behind him and playfully grab his bottom. 91) Share a jok
92) Say yes to making love (on a day when you're too tired). 93) Stop for a long kiss.
94) Plan a surprise date.
95) Run your fingers through his hair.
96) While in public, catch his eye and mouth "I love you".
97) Wink at him from across the room.
98) Hop in the shower together.
99) Create a DIY stress balm (using
Peace and Quiet essential oil blend) for him to use on his toughest days.
100) Offer to share a blanket together and snuggle.
101) Get his morning coffee for him.
102) Secretly hold hands while at dinner.
103) Surprise him by initiating physical contact that leads to making love. 104) Read a book out loud together (here's a
list of some great books).
105) Sit outside and share about the day (read about how we love
our daily 15 minutes in our porch swing).
106) Go on a double (or triple) date.
107) Watch a romantic movie together.
108) Run an errand for him.
109) Give him an unexpected hug.
110) Choose to
not get angry (even when you have a "right" to be angry).
111) Offer to watch the kids so he can have a night with the guys.
112) Say please and thank you.
113) Flirt (here are
16 ways!).
114) Write him a poem.
Learn massage techniques and give each other a massage.
116) Start a "love journal" (an ongoing journal where you can write messages back and forth).
Clean his cell phone screen for him.
118) Train for a 5K (or other big physical challenge) together.
119) Choose to not talk badly about him with your friends.
120) Open the door for him.
121) Play a sport together.
122) Go to a concert together.
123) Let him sleep in longer than you.
124) Plan a picnic.
125) Encourage him with a scripture (here are 18 verses on joy).
126) Create a scavenger hunt with post-it notes.
127) Plan a romantic dinner date (at a nice restaurant, or even in your home!).
128) Tell him he looks handsome today.
129) Watch his favorite television series together.
130) Make him a snack after a hard day of work.

For this and other great videos & other information - visit Vibrant Family Christian Website. 

About Alicia Michelle

As a wife and mom to four passionate kids, Alicia Michelle loves encouraging other moms with practical tips for joy-filled living in everyday life, especially in parenting, marriage, faith and health.

Alicia is the owner/editor of Your Vibrant Family; the author of Plan to Be Flexible, The Back to School Survival Manual; and the creator/producer of the “7 Days to a Less Angry Mom Online Video Course,”, Christ-Centered Christmas Resources and My Memory Box Organizing System. In addition, she is a monthly contributor for several popular family blogs, including Crosswalk.com and now part of our IPP Family.  We are honored to have her! 

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